Threesomes and My advice you to

[Cndman23]

I've done a few threesomes with my girlfriend. We have a very serious relationship but do enjoy the occasional extra person when we have sex. If anyone is trying a threesome please be sure your couple is mature and strong enough to last. Many people get scared when it comes to the thought that someone might be better then them in bed..oh well it happens but to give your man or women the pleasure of having 2 or 3 of male/female is a good feeling.

Now I can satisfy my women extremely well, with two guys she goes wild but it is fun. This ain't no gay scene when dudes touch, think of it as a way to give your women or man a new experience.

Anyone have questions concerning threesomes please ask.

[yellowfish]

Crossing swords so to speak. LOL

[Devone16]

*In my experience it seems that when a couple enters a relationship and brings others into it it usually end bad. Maybe not in the first year or even the second, but eventually it ends up destroying a relationship. Just my opinion, and i don't knock those that do prefer to have the occasional threesome, as i have been in "open" relationships in the past. Just be careful what you ask for.

[ryster]

I would think it has to do with what specifically in the relationship the couple values. Fidelity is a big one. That is why cheating is generally a death sentence (my understanding, long-time couples might stick together, but the trust will never recover).

If you are liberal enough to view sex as largely separate from other assets or values in a relationship, than you'd end up fine. But don't let lust blind you (or your spouse..) into falsely thinking you and your partner hold this perspective and sacrificing sexual monogamy, you will end up regretting that. Beyond high-school/college drunken one-night bullshit, I don't really have any experience with this kind of thing. I'm basically going off intuition and second-hand knowledge from experienced friends/family.

As a side note, consider that swingers clubs and vacation spots are a pretty big business, and they aren't all trashy and youth-oriented. They appeal to all kinds of couples, and perhaps that could offer some sort of insight into how this kind of thing works.

And one question, how long have you and your girlfriend been together Cndman?

[MaxZorin]

question: if sex is so good between you and your wife, why you need to add more people to the equation?
Maybe neither you nor she are telling each other the whole truth!

[ItalianAllTheWa]

I am all about having a threesome with my fiancee, the trouble is, it's nearly impossible to find a willing woman to participate! Girls like to "pretend" that they like girls when they're drunk and trying to get men's attention at the bar, then when it comes time to actually go home, they always flake out. So annoying.