Some advice?

[blondie25]

Okay so I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 4 months. I moved very far away from him and really just wanted it to be completely over. He was completely crushed and begged me to stay and what not and I really just couldn't be with him anymore. So now I am home and we are broken up for about a month now and yet it seems that I have this nagging feeling to find out if he is talking to anyone else! I can't quite figure this out ... I wanted to be done with him and I am and happy ... so why do I still care if he starts a new relationship ... I almost feel like its jealousy but not all at the same time .... So really I am just wondering if this is normal and has anyone else experienced this feeling? :sad2:

[fmb]

I think it's kind of normal. Hell, would you want to know you meant so little you could be easily replaced? I don't think anyone else would, either.

Don't go there. There is absolutely nothing good that will come of it. Let the sleeping dog lie.

[blondie25]

I think it's kind of normal. Hell, would you want to know you meant so little you could be easily replaced? I don't think anyone else would, either.

Don't go there. There is absolutely nothing good that will come of it. Let the sleeping dog lie.




Yeah thats what I was thinking ... You're right i'll just let it go ... Thanks :werd:

[fmb]

You're probably in college; forget having serious relationships. Date around a see what you like and don't like. At least when you decide to have a longer term relationship you'll know whether the person is worth staying with or not.

Have fun!

[bluebeefman]

It's because you feel attached to the validation that his attention brings you, it's more of a self suffering symptom. Not necessarily related to feelings for him. And shit, you probably do still have feelings for him, and will for a long time. It's just how it works when someone's a part of your life for a very long time. This doesn't mean however that the right decision would be to take him back.