Just need some reinforcement

[powder19]

So I'm really just looking to make sure others agree that I'm better off now that I'm not with my ex...I've posted on here before about her, but after we broke up, she went through 2 other guys in the span of about 5 months while still playing me, and then just recently ended up marrying a guy she had been dating for about a month, during that time she came and saw me and acted like we were still together and I told her that we couldn't talk anymore. Despite that and her best friends telling me that I should never give her another chance if she ever wants one, I still feel like if she did want another chance, I would give it to her, my mind says no, but my emotions say yes...I just need some enforcement because I know I'm so much better without her, but my fUcki$N( emotions keep getting in the way

[tbovr4]

I Agree With You... Move On Leave Her Behind Its Not Worth The Pain Over And Over Again. Also How Could You Ever Trust Someone Like That,jumping From Guy To Guy...

Thats My 2 Cents

[CD]

Dude. I'm sorry to say this, but she hates you. Maybe not in the way that you normally think, but it's true. How could anyone put another through so much emotional stress, sleep with multiple other people and NOT hate them? DO NOT TALK TO HER AGAIN.

If you do talk to her again, I'm pretty sure, you won't be getting any more advice from this forum, since you blatantly disregard any and all advice we give you.

[Cybermax]

The five months wasted getting played by her was five months that could have been used to find someone else to hook up with. End it with her PERIOD

[Indigenous]

This girl obviously has issues. Anyone that fucks with another persons emotions the way she has with yours cannot be healthy to be with. Not to mention that she suckered some poor sap into marriage after only dating for a MONTH?!

That has psycho written all over it.

I'm sure there are lots of wonderful things about her and you still have feelings for her, blah blah blah, but the fact is she's a train wreck just looking for people to drag down with her and you seem to be at the top of her list.

I know it sounds cheesy, but you need to be telling yourself that you deserve better than her. So next time you get all misty eyed thinking about how great it was when you were together and how happy she made you, just remember: SHE'S FUCKING NUTS!

This has no chance of ending in any way other than badly, so the sooner you cut her off, the better. Otherwise down the road you'll be looking back and kicking yourself in the ass for all the bullshit and pain you put up with.

Oh, and if you want to be the bigger man, show that there's no hard feelings by sending her new hubby a bottle of Jack. Something tells me he'll be needing it.

[abcde123]

You made the right choice. You are better off. Emotions are strong, but they are not based in reality or rationale. You are doing fine.

[Cards705]

Buddy move on...you are only going to hurt yourself and well you are better off w/o her

[Juan.Camaney]

She has no respect for you, and quite frankly neither do you!

Where is your dignity?!

Where is your self respect?!

Where is your love for other pussy?!

[supersatch]

Sounds kinda wierd but you need a deployment. If you were in that is. In your case a vacation will do. Remove yourself from the situation. Gain a new perspective for yourself.

There's no future in a girl like that. If you were to look five years from now would you really see yourself with her and happy at the same time knowing that she is this way? Don't waste the time. Even if she did change, would you be able to forget all of this ever happened? Or accept it?

No man would. It's time to move on. You're worth more.

[powder19]

Thanks guys you're all right, I haven't talked to her since august so shes been cut off and I know I'm way better off without her in my life, just needed some people to keep me on track.

[MaxZorin]

She has no respect for you, and quite frankly neither do you!

Where is your dignity?!

Where is your self respect?!

Where is your love for other pussy?!

Seriously, you should be the pope man, or at least the noble prize of phsycology.

My personal advise: Move over man, just go out there and live you life without she and her shitty emotions, you can only get better if you get rid of her so you just have to do it. Nobody says it´s gonna be fast or easy, but perhaps it might be so go out, hang out with your friend, meet another girls, have some fun and enjoy your new life without her annoying influence.
As emotions are the result chemistry playing around in your brain just like the drug, sometimes you have to quit on them to live a healthy life, so this time don´t listen you emotions about her and your past life.
I hope i´d be helpful

[Weezer1982]

You dont need her in your life. She sounds like a lunatic anyway. Marrying someone that she met a month ago? Move on to other girls dude, there are plenty out there.

[deadfish]

Everyone here is absolutely right. Take their word on this girl. She's definitely not worth your time and effort.

Thanks guys you're all right, I haven't talked to her since august so shes been cut off and I know I'm way better off without her in my life, just needed some people to keep me on track.

Another thing, though. Its great that the people here at webrats are caring and willing enough to help keep you on track, but you need to get a hold of yourself (and I say that with compassion). The day you learn to control your emotions and desires and think with a clear head will be the day that you begin to live your life the way you deserve. Be good to yourself, do what makes you happy, and most of all, TRUST YOURSELF.

With that in mind, keep up the good work. You are, without a doubt! better off without her. :0)