Strange girl issue...

[dmiller038]

So I've been out with this girl twice, and it's been really good. We get along great, there's definitely that "click", and I can tell she's into me when we're together (laughs at stupid stuff, makes eye contact, asks personal stuff about me, etc.) She kissed me on her doorstep when I took her home last time, and gave that little "I don't wanna go" body language when I was about to leave (waiting like five minutes to actually go inside). She even tries to get me alone when we're hanging out with mutual friends.

The only problem is, she's really hard to get a hold of outside of when we hang out. I'll leave a message on her voicemail saying call me back when you get a chance, and she finally does like two days later, but it's becoming consistently this way. I've never had a girl not call back or text back within a day or so, so this is somewhat new to me.

So to summarize, I'm a little put off by the lack of communication during the week, but her body language and words when we're together tells me that she's just playing hard to get when I'm not with her. What do y'all think? Am I just being an idiot by worrying about this? When we're together I can really see things going somewhere.

[Juan.Camaney]

This girl's game is tight! I'd kill for someone like that. She gives you enough to keep you interested and not too much so you treat her like you would any other girl. Player! Enjoy your time with her, guy, but follow her lead....don't get too attached to the same girl, keep your collection growing. You're 24...still more to meet. If the few times you do see her she likes you more, then maybe she might keep you exclusive....for now, she's playing the field like any other woman her age should be doing.

[dmiller038]

Thanks Juan! Kinda what I was thinking but it's good to hear someone else say it.

So far I've been doing good about not appearing too anxious to talk to her or hang out with her, so I don't see anything going wrong there. To me it's just strange to see a girl go from totally on to not hearing from her for a while. I've always kinda thought that if a girl was into you she'd find a way to get a hold of you. Evidently some girls just take longer than others...

Now off to go meet some new girls :)

[Juan.Camaney]

You are actually not in good a shape as you thought. You are here asking about her behavior, you are almost panicking. She doesn't turn on and off, and she gets a hold of you pretty easy...do the same to her and quit answering her call for a bit and watch her attitude change.

[joerockhead]

I have known a woman very much like her, years ago.

Everything was good, until I found out she was married.


Good luck.

[bobdole316]

Well, I'll through my 2 cents in, as I had the same thing. It dragged on for about 4 years. We went through things just like this at times, and at times things were that normal relationship stuff. In the end we don't talk anymore. One thing I did was turn it around on her, one thing I learned, don't be the one who needs her always, make it so she needs you. Don't call her, play her game. It might sound fucked up, but if there is something between you then she'll come calling.

[dmiller038]

Ran into her last night at a bar, found out she has had a boyfriend for the past 6 months.
Needless to say, I think our fun has come to an end.

Thanks for your help guys.

[uacmarine]

That always sucks. :sad2:

@ Juan, though,
DUDE! I can't stop looking at the pic! ARG!
I think it would really suck if she got knocked up though, cuz all those beautiful tats on her belly would kinda stretch some :jimi:

[Juan.Camaney]

lmao...straight out PLAYER! NEXT!

[Weezer1982]

Did you at least get some?

[malichi]

Why not keep her around until she doesnt want to be kept? She is at least cool with casual sex.

[abcde123]

bonus points to JoeRockhead. Good insight.

[Xlax]

Yeah its pretty troublesome when its hard to get into contact with people. It means she keeps busy and i guess is hardley board.