Masturbating Too Much?

[pretty_diamonds]

I have this problem and I never really took a notice of it 'til recentlu but my boyfriend looks at porn and masturbates and I believe masturbation is a healthy release but sometimes it drives me crazy because he would rather masturbate and look at porn than have sex with me or any woman for that matter. He masturbates at least 4 times a day everyday and I'm lucky to get sex once every two weeks. is that normal? I'm not trying to be conceited when I say I think I'm a fairly attractive woman and I'm usually secure about myself but this really bothers me. lost and confused on what to do

[Greven359]

Have you tried interupting his sessions with a better offer?

[Anibal]

No offense or anything with my comment. Offer him a blowjob if he passes then he has a problem and needs profesional help or you are just not as atractive or good at sex as you think.

[johnwkd1]

If he'd rather masturbate than have sex, somethings wrong. I'm not saying this with 100% certainty, but I'd definately discuss it with him to make sure he's still happy with you. I masturbate at least once a day, but I'd much rather have sex with my wife.

[Lou-Evil_Spycho]

well, um... sounds like you need some extra activities yourself. maybe if he sees how often you pleasure yourself without him he will get the picture.

[gen. cutter]

masturbation 4x is not wrong. it just depends on your sex drive. but passing on sex for masturbation, when you do it all the time, does indicate a problem.

a relationship with a healthy sex life should include insuring you AND your partner are satisfied. if he's not concerned with satisfying you anymore, THAT'S the problem.