Commitment issues

[Mattius]

Ive been single for about 4 or 5 years now and never had a serious girlfriend. Ive had 3 girls that Ive hung out with occasionally but mainly just for sex. Ive had the opportunity to have several girlfriends but Im busy, and enjoy spending my downtime alone or with my closest friends. Lately Ive thought about having a girlfriend and picking up girls isnt hard for me. But whenever I get close to that girlfriend/relationship stage with a girl that I previously really liked and thought I wanted to date I get terrified at the idea of being in a relationship. Like to the point where my stomach gets in knots and I start to almost feel sick. Does this happen to anyone else? Is it weird that one day I will think to myself "Damn shes hot, great personality, and similar interests as me, shed be a great girlfriend", then the next Im thinking "Aghhh! Run! I cant have a relationship. Run for the hills!"?

[Mattius]

Oh, and for the record, I know my profile says Im a female.. Im actually a male, but dont know how to change it. Sorry if that screwed any of you up haha.

[Juan.Camaney]

I'll take care of that female thing for you in a bit.

There is nothing wrong with you. As long as you are upfront about what you feel to the women you date, you are right on the money of where a man your age should be. Don't be scared to let a woman know you just want to be fuck buddies or hang out and fuck every once in a while. A lot of women are into that thing now as people become busier and busier. I have great fuck buddies I love to hang out with, but I can never be in a real relationship with them....namely because I already call some other girl a GF, but also because they are not the type of woman I can bring home to maw. :D

[UrbanHustle]

You should be out having fun, doing what a young man should want to do, fuck.

When you find the right girl, you won't feel the way you do.