A problem ive never had before...

[-Bandit]

So i was having sex w/ my girlfriend and everything was going totally fine, wasnt super stressed or uncomfortable or anything like that, but i could never finish. And its not for lack of trying, was damn near going for an hour and she got off 2-3 times. maybe more but at that point i wasn't really paying that much attention to that anymore lol... Has anyone else had trouble 'finishing the race'? If so, advice on how to make sure it doesnt happen again? Never happened to me before and im really confused bout why it happened.

[Queso]

Now you know how most girls feel during sex. Did it still feel good? As long as it still felt great then so what if you don't get off.

As far as why, no clue, maybe you were just having an off day. tired maybe? dehydrated?

[CD]

It's happened to me before. I blamed the alcohol, but if not that, then something might have been on your mind subconsciously.

[Juan.Camaney]

happens a lot with me if i lose interest or just wasn't feeling it. happens a lot in porn movies too which is why you see guys go and go and then have to whack off vigourously for like 10 minutes just to bust

[greeze]

Happened to me just last night! Couldn't finish (she was loving it though) and am as horny as hell this morning! Don't worry about it; it happens sometimes. Just make sure you give her a creamy facial next time!

[kulotsalot]

Heh. I love how guys are like "OMG I didn't finish what's wrong?!" and ladies are like "Same old, same old, now where's that vibrator..."

Maybe the ladies should start acting as though orgasm-less sex just isn't acceptable anymore...

[-Bandit]

thanks for the advice every1 :)
really appreciate it and i guess ill just see what happens next time

[the(lorax)]

dude, are you taking meds? 'cause some medication, particularly anti-depressants and the like, can make climaxing impossible. had that happen to me and it's the worst case of blue-balls you can ever, ever have.

[cm8]

that has happened to my s.o. before, I think it is because he didn't want it to start with. I can't speak for how you feel, but if it has been happening to you maybe you should see a doctor. Could be a sign of ED.

[Patito]

Happens to me occasionally as well, like I become desensitized to the feeling of sex. I recommend trying to switch things up a bit, maybe see if she'll give you a hand job or do something else that will cause a different sensation down there. Trying a new position sometimes helps as well, or I'll stop and go down on her for a bit and then go back at it.

[Juan.Camaney]

Heh. I love how guys are like "OMG I didn't finish what's wrong?!" and ladies are like "Same old, same old, now where's that vibrator..."

Maybe the ladies should start acting as though orgasm-less sex just isn't acceptable anymore...
well...it's kind of different for guys, we're wired to finish once, then rest, and go again where as you guys....well.....you know. :juan:

[Weezer1982]

Like everyone has said, it happens. I don't think you should worry that much about it. Unless this happens often, it shouldnt be a big deal. A lot of things could affect not finishing.