Like her as a friend but would like more but....

[BlackJackuk]

She sleeps around a lot. A few of us were out last weekend we were chatting away just myself and her and this random guy came up starting speaking.

Got a text from my some of my other friends that were outside so I went to get them and head back in the club. Get back in, next thing I know she's off dancing with this guy fair enough I thought left her too it went home.

Later I find out she took him back to her flat and shagged him. Speaking to her flatmate yesterday he says he's worried that all these randoms keep coming back to the flat with her.

She is a nice girl and I hate to see her being used like this and she is getting a rep of being the village bike.

Should I just stay friends with her or try and pursue a relationship?

[fmb]

Are you the village bike? If you were getting all the women you wanted, would you see a problem with your decisions? Just another way of looking at your issue. If she's having protected sex, she may just be enjoying herself. Maybe she's used to guys treating her like dirt and when a guy shows some interest, she does what she does.

Don't judge her. If you decide to talk with her about this, do so only if you're being a friend and not the friend that would like more.

[@man2girlz]

i dated a girl who was fucking everything that moved and i figured that since we were together mainly for sex i wouldn't care, but as usual i was wrong and i started to feel jealous even though i knew 100% that there were no feelings of 'love' between us. i guess it would depend on what kind of relationship you are looking for from her...

[powder19]

tough situation man, theres a girl i know like this, shes not a huge skank, but continues to hookup with losers while I'm still here, but right at this moment shes single and i've been thinkin of making a move and the next time i see her she brings her friend who is super hot and now I dunno what to do! a whole nother problem of figuring out if the original chick is gonna get pissed when i try to get her friend's number haha! life is great, all I gotta say is don't worry too much, right when you think theres only one chick that want to work on, hook up with, be with, etc. another falls in your lap just keep on truckin', maybe find some random chick next time you go out with her and ignore her and see how she likes it, girls are the most jealous creatures i've ever seen haha

[fmb]

why not play the field and see them both? It can be difficult, but is doable. Let your friend know you're interested, but your non-exclusive and things will be very hands off. Shoot for the other; however, I'm gonna tell you the woman bond is tight and is difficult to get through.

If ou play your cards right, all the women will introduce you to their friends. The point is, don't be judgemental, have an open mind, and don't talk about other women in front of them.

[Weezer1982]

See what happens. Go with the flow and your gut feeling. Don't be disappointed if nothing ever materializes though. I'm already turned off by her actions and wouldn't want to pursue her for a relationship. Good luck.

[jeffc574]

This may sound strange since she seems to be hitting anything with three legs, but just be her friend right now. Do not get in line for the ride. She may end her "skanking" and if you want to be something more, than being one of the "80 on '08" will not help. Doing her and then getting attached and jealous will not help anyone.

[malichi]

Doesnt sound like she wants to slow down right now either. So if it were and if it were to be straight sex and nothing else, then go for it. But if you are going to throw emotions into it then stay out of it.