Very Confusing Girl

[Cards705]

So here we go........

Ive gone out with girl a couple of times, nothing to serious just kind of like a triple date here and a double date there. Every time that I have asked here to go out with just me she has always had some sort of excuse. Well I didnt ask here for awhile and decided to give it one more go (3rd time...if she declined then it was strike 3 and no more). I asked her out to a ball game this past weekend and then we ended up going to a party together.

Once we got to the party she kind of blew me off a little bit and not in a good way. Well fast forward to Sunday and I end up getting a text that saying thank you etc for the day that she had a great time. I called her this past Monday to see if she wanted to do anything this Wed since she would be going out of town for the rest of the week and wouldnt be back until sunday. I havent gotten phone call back and I dont really want to give her another call since Im kind of leaving the ball in her court.

I still would like to do something with her tonight. Also I should stress that she does seem a lil flaky with the phone calls and usually answers more to text messages. Another thing is that she we have made out b4 and she has also invited me to her place, so I was just wondering what my next move should be since she seems to be sending me some very mixed signals.


sorry for the grammer I was typing fast

also Im not going to call her for awhile and kind of see where it goes but your advice is appreciated

[cm8]

not sure about that one, seems like she is playing a game, and you shouldn't put all of your eggs in her basket.... go find you someone else to be around..

[Anibal]

So why didnt you go to her place ?

I dont know about text messages id rather call her and have an answer right away, she says no then fuck it.

[Queso]

She's not interested. Let it go and find someone who's interested in you.

[dood87]

don't waste your time. if she really wants you she'll pursue you she will. you tried and its her turn now.

[canu]

Well looks to me that you have tried and tried leave it on her shoulders now,make her call you back.

[powder19]

i agree with the rest, leave it to her to get back to you and forget about it, if shes really interested she'll get back to ya, if not then this could be the type of girl thats got multiple guys on the line and shes playing her options, if she did ask you over to her place did you go? If not why? She might only give ya so many chances to make the move

[CD]

next

[@man2girlz]

i think she wanted to fuck you, but when you made signals that you were more into developing this to a relationship then she put the brakes on and began seeking sex elsewhere... not an expert but that's what i would think in that situation

if you just want to get her into bed, it may help to ask her if she wants to go to a bar with you, imply that alcohol -> loosening up -> nsa sex is the idea...not a date, unless thats not what you're looking for! then, look elsewhere :)