Some advice for when I go home?

[number1mikafan]

Thanks all for reading, and it's nice to be back on here, it's been a few months.

Long story short, I'm from Rochester NY but have been living in Orlando FL soince mid-late January on the college program at Walt Disney World. I'll be going home soon, and i'll arrive on the 18th. I have been talking to this girl from back home for the last 7 weeks and things are going amazingly. We talk 5 times a week and we have been talking about getting together when I get home.

This is where the scary part is.

My last "girlfriend" was in high school and it only lasted 2 1/2 months. I have had sex since then (thank god) but i've had a few problems performance wise. So I have a two part question: First, what is something that we should do as a first date? We know each other well enough to not have the akward "getting to know you" talk on the first date. And lately my dates havent gone to the 2nd and 3rd. And situation two, if i do get in something serious with her, should I tell her about some of the problems I'm having (lack of consistent practice) or have had, or should I wait until they happen (if they even do) and talk to her then?

Thanks. I value your guys' input.

[jeffc574]

Ask her if there is someplace she would like to go. The other thing would be to do something fun in the afternoon that could lead to dinner and then to her place.

As to performance. Just go slow. If you are worried about popping early, try to get a BJ or hand job first. Some girls like to watch it "shoot". If you are worried about pleasing her, just listen to her. When she says faster and a little to the left, that is your clue, not a criticism.