a great problem to have

[number1mikafan]

I am, by far, the most shy insecure guy you could ever meet. Many of my girl-friends say I'm an attractive guy, just along with the aforementioned, I can't read signals.

I left my school last weekend to visit my friend at another college about an hour away. We went to a party and chilled and I talked with a lot of people from that college (beer does amazing things) and to make a long story short, I got 2 girls #'s.

Great, right? Yea. But here's the problem. A) Both are in the same sorority, B) When I get nervous I talk and talk and talk and talk and thats a huge turnoff, I know, C) I don't know when to call these girls, and D) would I piss either of them off if i called them both.

I barely know them, and would like to get to know them better, but I don't know how to go about it. And if a relationship is a real relationship, or just a "hit it and quit it" thing, I really could have either at this point in my life, there's pros and cons to both.

I don't wanna screw this one up, I do almost all of the time and I want to prove to myself that I can actually pick up a woman and that I won't be lonely the rest of my life lol.

[kulotsalot]

Call them and keep asking them questions. That way they talk about themselves, and you also look like you're interested coz you keep asking questions.

[Anibal]

if u have their numbers as kulot said i too think u should call them both and talk, see wich one has a better personality to be with you and ask her out. I dont think u should go out with both of them because of how u say u are. It takes a lot of experience to go out with two girls that can probably know each other (im not saying its no fun but its not what this is for ... serious discussion) talk to them, be your self, and dont waste time call them right away good luck

[odysseusignmail]

You gotta just calm down and get to know the girl. Once you get to know her, you shouldn't feel as much nervousness and you won't blab on like an idiot. Ask questions so that she'll have a chance to talk. But definitely talk to both of them. There's no exclusivity when you're just starting to date.

Go for it!

[Skyler7]

You talked to them both in real life, so calling them both won't be a problem. With a little luck, the first one won't answer when you call, so you have the perfect excuse to call the other one and, having left a message for the first one, of course you'll answer when she calls you back or you'll follow up on your message and then you can talk to the other one, too

Just don't make a date with both of them on the same weekend and keep your fingers crossed they're not roommates. :)

I was shy and insecure in high school and college, too. Some women think that's adorable and are intrigued by you seeming a little hard to get. Makes a nice change from guys who are all over them. Be yourself and let it work to your advantage. It won't work with every woman, but how much spare time do you have anyway? :)

Skyler