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I'm with Backdoor Jesus on this one... but gen. cutter makes many valid points. gen. cutter should talk to his wife about this. Tell her that it would be a stress relief for the both of you if you two made more time for sex. Sex is still an important thing when you become older and is still very important in a relationship. Communication is important in a relationship, even if the other person doesn't listen or communicate effectively (at least you made your point known). But the main point... why get married? If you can live a happy life and do whatever you want... why not? It's true, it's all about the "mating process", but most people just go with the flow and get married because they love and care for that person. Some people also don't consider the legal complications if things do go south in the marrage. I wish you luck gen. cutter. Perhaps some sex therapy might be necessary in order to get things back the way they were. Some can also blame womens changing hormones on this one... but that's a different subject.